I Did the Unthinkable: I Kicked My Child Out of My House

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I Did the Unthinkable: I Kicked My Child Out of My House

by Robin Kavanagh | April 29, 2019

Toth and Watson’s stories help me realize that I did what was best, not only for Mary, but for myself. It is a hard lesson to learn, but one that is essential for mothers of self-destructive adult children, says Dr. Dana Dorfman, host of the 2 Moms on the Couch podcast and a psychotherapist who specializes in family therapy and life transitions.

“Personal sacrifice seems to be an inherent part of parenting; putting your own needs aside for those of your children,” she says. “However, when parents’ emotional or physical health is jeopardized, they are no longer able to be helpful to their children. This is a painful, yet essential delineation of boundaries that conveys several important messages to the adult child, such as ‘I love you, but I am separate from you.  As a separate person, I must maintain my self-respect and dignity. I will not allow another to abuse me. This is not okay.’”

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